I…love this song (and the others). I helped my daughter write a book, but this dad wins the next level by immortalizing the songwriter of a generation.

// 09.03.26

Regarding a study of remote work looking at 500,000 Americans with “remotable jobs,” Prof Emma Harrington, one of the ‘Home Alone’ study’s authors:

When one person is out of the office, it impacts people who remain in the office, so even an on-site worker in a remotable job may now be lonelier because their colleagues choose to work from home.

They conclude that remote work “substantially increases isolation and worsens mental health.” The reality is assuredly varied and more complicated, but the impact of remote work on onsite work is, as suggested, pretty clear.

// 08.31.26

David Epstein, author of Range, writing about Herbert Simon’s notion of “satisficingin the NYT as part of his promotional blog tour for his new book, Inside the Box:

Maximizers tend to be less satisfied with their decisions and their lives. They are typically less happy, more prone to regret and more likely to compare themselves endlessly with others. Satisficers don’t necessarily have low standards. Their standard is “good enough for me” rather than “the best out there,” and that makes it possible to feel satisfied with their choices, instead of haunted by the ones they didn’t make.

The psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, who first used the term “flow” to describe states of complete absorption in an activity, put it well. By making up one’s mind to invest in a choice, regardless of more attractive options that may come along later, “a great deal of energy gets freed up for living, instead of being spent on wondering about how to live.”

Delightful. Both feet fully in as opposed to one foot out. Assuredly hard to always employ in a world where social media functions as “an infinite comparison engine,” but delightful.

 

// 07.23.26

From Wisdom Takes Work by Ryan Holiday:

The purpose of knowledge is action.

Too much study and not enough doing creates a paucity of knowledge, a shelter of naïveté, no matter how smart you are.

There are things that make sense on the page but do not survive contact with events.

We are living in a world where information is getting ever cheaper and ever more abundant. It still takes work to use it.

// 07.09.26

Isaac Asimov (from a 1988 interview), providing a different perspective on trust, incentives, and guardrails:

It’s insulting to imply that only a system of rewards and punishments can keep you a decent human being. Isn’t it conceivable a person wants to be a decent human being because that way he feels better?

// 06.29.26

From the ending of Leonard Mlodinow’s Subliminal: How Your Unconscious Mind Rules Your Behavior:

We choose the facts that we want to believe. We also choose our friends, lovers, and spouses not just because of the way we perceive them but because of the way they perceive us. Unlike phenomena in physics, in life, events can often obey one theory or another, and what actually happens can depend largely upon which theory we choose to believe. It is a gift of the human mind to be extraordinarily open to the theory of ourselves that pushes us in the direction of survival and even happiness.

// 06.12.26